By Dr. Shraddha Chandak, Pediatric Haemato-Oncologist & Immunologist

Cancer is one of the most feared words in India.
But in rural regions, it is not just feared — it is misunderstood, whispered, hidden, delayed, and often never spoken about openly, especially when the patient is a child.

In my years of clinical practice as a Pediatric Haemato-Oncologist in Chhatrapati Sambhajinagar (Aurangabad), Marathwada, I have realized that the biggest battle isn’t always medical — it is social.

Even today, many rural families believe:

  • “Cancer is a curse.”
  • “If we say it out loud, it will get worse.”
  • “What will society think?”
  • “Nothing can cure cancer, so why treat?”
  • “Better to not tell anyone.”

These beliefs are not rooted in lack of care — they come from fear, lack of awareness, social stigma, and misinformation.

When a child is diagnosed, the emotional burden multiplies because parents silently deal with:

✔ guilt
✔ shame
✔ fear of judgment
✔ financial anxiety
✔ social isolation

This is what makes early cancer detection in rural children dangerously delayed.

How Cancer Stigma Harms Children More Than the Disease Itself

Impact of StigmaReal Consequence
Diagnosis is kept secretChild reaches doctor at late stage
Preference for local remedies firstCritical treatment time is lost
Fear of judgmentChild avoids social support systems
Denial of diseaseNo medical intervention
Cultural mythsChild suffers silently

In pediatric cancers like leukemia, lymphoma, bone tumors, neuroblastoma, kidney tumors, and blood malignancies, every week of delay can significantly reduce treatment success rates.

The Reality Parents Must Know

✅ Childhood cancers are among the most treatable cancers when detected early
✅ Many children can return to school, sports, and normal life post-treatment
✅ Cancer is not contagious, punishment, curse, or destiny
✅ It does not happen due to food, lifestyle, or bad parenting
✅ There is no shame in seeking treatment — there is strength in it

Why Rural Cancer Stigma is Stronger Around Children

  1. Limited access to pediatric cancer specialists
  2. Fear of treatment costs (chemotherapy, hospital stay, supportive care)
  3. Lack of awareness that children respond better to treatment than adults
  4. Social gossip and sympathy being perceived as negative judgment
  5. Confusion between adult and pediatric cancer outcomes
  6. Myths spread through word-of-mouth or unverified sources

Often, parents tell me:
“We thought children cannot get cancer… we never imagined this.”

That disbelief turns into silence — and silence delays cure.

Signs of Childhood Cancer Parents Should Not Overlook

  • Persistent fever for weeks
  • Excessive fatigue or paleness
  • Easy bruising or bleeding
  • Repeated infections
  • Sudden weight loss
  • Lump in abdomen, neck, or bone pain
  • Headaches with vomiting
  • Swollen lymph nodes

If these signs last more than 7–10 days, immediate pediatric oncology evaluation is critical.

Breaking the Rural Taboo: What Needs to Change?

1. Open Conversations

Cancer should be treated like any other medical diagnosis, not a secret.

2. Education in Schools & Communities

Awareness makes parents confident to seek timely help.

3. Access to Right Specialists

Children need pediatric cancer experts, not generalized treatment.

4. Financial Guidance & Support Awareness

Many treatments can be supported through:

  • government health schemes
  • NGO assistance
  • CSR programs
  • pediatric cancer foundations
  • immunoglobulin support programs
  • financial aid networks

5. Parent Support Groups

Knowing other children have recovered brings hope.

Healing Starts When Fear Ends

When parents walk into my clinic with fear, my priority is not only the treatment plan — it is reassurance.

Because once a parent understands:

  • that treatment works,
  • that cure is possible,
  • that cancer is not a social identity,

…the healing process already begins.

To Every Parent Reading This

Your child does not need secrecy.
Your child needs treatment, support, courage, and medical care.
And you, parents, do not need to fight this alone.

Expert Consultation Available in Chhatrapati Sambhajinagar (Aurangabad)

Dr. Shraddha Chandak
Pediatric Haemato-Oncologist & Immunologist

Kpond Children’s Superspeciality Hospital, Chhatrapati Sambhajinagar (Aurangabad), Maharashtra

+91 70583 80494